Monday, June 29, 2009

NY Day Two: Two Chairs

It was a hard day. It didn’t start that way.

I went on a bike ride first thing this morning and came across a symbol with such impact that I had to take a picture…



To the average Joe (or June) this would appear to be two chairs overlooking the lake. To me, it represents so much more. All I could think about was the future…Robbie and I thirty years from now sitting in chairs that look just like these ones...overlooking some body of water…talking about the things that matter to us…our kids, grandkids…plain and simple…our family.

Family means something different depending on who you ask. To me, it represents the essence of who I am…the pieces of me that have somehow blended together to create one being. Each piece is dramatically different from the other, but somehow finds a way to connect to the other…That’s family.

My dad blessed me with a passion for life.
My mom taught me to love first and worry about the rest later.
My mom’s mom showed me the power of faith while her dad trained me in the art of story-telling.
My dad’s mom made me the hostess I am while my Grandpa Ike embedded a strength within me that never waivers.
And the intricate connections go on and on and on…each one of them a unique, twisted and beautiful part of me.

So as I spent the day at my grandparents’ farm, I teetered the emotional fence riding somewhere between nostalgia and finality…




how it began and how it will end…



and everything else in between.

The realization as I was wiping the tear from my son’s face, that I would be wiping a similar tear from the cheek of a man who has embodied strength my entire life.

Goodbyes are always hard, but they seem to be harder when they could be the last. I can only hope not.

Sunday, June 28, 2009

NY Day One: Dirty Uncle Paul




We all have one...the crazy relative...When it comes to my family, we have been BLESSED with crazies...of course, top of my list is my dirty Uncle Paul.

Here is a list of my favorite Uncle Paul moments:

1. Gave my great grandma a hickey
2. Grab my rearend while dancing (I'm talking two fistfuls)
3. Sang "Love in an Elevator" at the top of his lungs at my wedding.

Today we found him oozing up to Igglers. Ya gotta love him!

We had a great time with mom's family down at the lake. We ate, swam and ate some more. I am looking forward to a great week. This is the first time my brothers and I have ALL been together in four years. Aren't they cute?


Stay tuned for more adventures from Keuka Lake!

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

This Lady...

When I saw the picture of this lady today, I almost peed my pants...


I was standing at the zoo trying to get two preschoolers to smile when she bursts into my pic. Her face is classic! Poor lady...she didn't know what the heck was going on.

Lily and I had a great time at the zoo with my boss and her granddaughter. On Wednesdays it is $1 day so you can't beat the price. Of course, the animals were hot and pretty inactive, but the girls didn't seem to mind.

And...the carousel ride at the end of the afternoon was a nice way to cool off...
After a hot afternoon at the zoo, a drink is necessary but lo and behold, the concession stand closed at 3:00...WHAT??? Two little girls wanting red drink (not sure what that is) and the zoo decides there is no money to be made from patrons after 3:00. Must be a man running that place.

Monday, June 15, 2009

And Yet Another Birthday!

I love birthdays...we all know this. The kids and I have gotten quite good at going to the party supply aisle at Target and letting one pick out the giftbag, one pick out the party hats, and each pick out a card.

We headed north to meet Bobo and Igglers at Calhoun's to celebrate his 28th birthday. The kids were super excited to see them since it has been awhile since we've been together. Tate drew a special picture of him beating Bobo in Mario Kart. It was classic!





So in honor of my baby brother Rusty, I asked our friends and family what they love most about our Bobo. Here are some of their responses:

"His red hair."

"His tender heart."

"The way he loves to play with his niece and nephews."

"Passion he has to pursue his goals and dreams"

"He always does something to make me laugh..whether he tries to or not"

"Even though he's an old man now, he's still pretty cute."

"Sweet, sincere, southern charm"

"Because I love him (spoken like a true 3 yr old)

"His loyalty to family"

"He's a metro-sexual"

"He calls me everyday"

"He helps me win on my DS"

"His sense of humor"

And I didn't even have to pay any of them to say these nice things! No really...brother, son, uncle...you are one knarly dude. So lucky to have you and so glad you were born today!

Biker Bar and Breasts

Yes...this is still a family friendly blog, but I had to post on here about our night on the patio at what used to be a nice waterfront restaurant.

A sitter...good friends...celebration of Non's birthday...


Sounds like the formula for a great night? Well almost, but not exactly...

Saturday night, Non, IMOM, RobBob and I decided to head down to Chatt to enjoy dinner on the river and hopefully get a glimpse of the fireworks from Riverbend.

We walked in and the once "good food, good view, good music" venue had turned into a smoky sports bar. Fortunately for us, they had built a new deck so we hustled out and waited on our waitresses.

Needless to say, the service wasn't great, the atmosphere was on a slow decline, and the clientale left a bit to be desired. Let's just say I saw more wrinkled ta-ta's in corsettes than I need to for the rest of my life.

Overall, the following was accomplished...

Good conversation (check)
Good steak (check) even though it wasn't the one I ordered :)
Good view of the fireworks (check)
Good way to celebrate the Nonster (check)

We decided that we had to get out of their before eleven as we weren't sure what would happen for the late shift. Wasn't the worst date of my life, actually not even close...

Pool Time

We have spending quite a bit of time at the pool over the past few weeks. This weekend we got to enjoy some swim time with great friends. The kids look so cute with their little tan lines and sunkissed hair. I am enjoying my Friday's off and gearing up for the big NY trip in 11 days.


Thursday, June 11, 2009

Casseroles for Cancer

I am sifting through my old emails and I found one from a teacher regarding some graduates from our school. Needless to say, I wish I had come across this blog sooner than now. I feel inspired...Check it out and see for yourself...

http://casserolesforcancer.com/